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Find a therapist who can facilitate communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy-building skills within couples or families, utilising approaches such as emotionally focused therapy or systemic interventions to improve relationship satisfaction and foster connection.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Lorea Urquiaga Urcelaya
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Lorea Urquiaga Urcelaya

Lorea Urquiaga Urcelaya

Licensed Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Burnout • Mindfulness • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Burnout • Mindfulness • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
112 / session112
Lisbon
Online only
Matilda Redlefsen
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Matilda Redlefsen

Matilda Redlefsen

Psychologist
Depression • Holistic approach • Meditation • Nonviolent Communication • Personal development • Relationships • Spirituality
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Depression • Holistic approach • Meditation • Nonviolent Communication • Personal development • Relationships • Spirituality
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Rita Toma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Rita Toma

Rita Toma

Psychodynamic and depth Therapist /Psychoanalytische und tiefenpsychologisch fundierte Psychotherapeutin
Anxiety • Depression • Eating disorders • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Eating disorders • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Relationships • Trauma
/ session
Berlin
Online only
Mariia Massaliutina
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Mariia Massaliutina

Mariia Massaliutina

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Relationships • Social anxiety • Stress • Supervision for therapists
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Relationships • Social anxiety • Stress • Supervision for therapists
85 / session85
Amsterdam
Online only
Karina
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Karina

Karina

MSc Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
65 / session65
Kyiv
Online only
Julina Sorgenfrei
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Julina Sorgenfrei

Julina Sorgenfrei

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Career • Counselling • Mindfulness • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Career • Counselling • Mindfulness • Relationships • Stress
90 / session90
Hamburg
Online only
Umang Badhwar
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Umang Badhwar

Umang Badhwar

Coach
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Clinical psychology • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Clinical psychology • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
170 / session170
Bloomfield Township
Online only
Esra Oncel
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Esra Oncel

Esra Oncel

Counselling Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
45 / session45
Athens
Online only
Kristiana Bencheva
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Kristiana Bencheva

Kristiana Bencheva

Clinical Psychologist, Counsellor using Reality Therapy approach, Relationship counselling in Sofia
Anxiety • Burnout • Career • Counselling • Depression • Divorce • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Career • Counselling • Depression • Divorce • Relationships
50 / session50
Sofia
Online only
Antonia Kennel
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Antonia Kennel

Antonia Kennel

Medical doctor, Hypnotherapist, NLP-Trainer, Professional Emergency Counsellor
Addictions • Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Addictions • Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Mikhail Reymarov
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Mikhail Reymarov

Mikhail Reymarov

Psychological Counsellor
Addictions • Anxiety • Depression • Mindfulness • Online therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Depression • Mindfulness • Online therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence
90 / session90
Antalya
Online only
Yoky Yu
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Yoky Yu

Yoky Yu

Integrative Somatic Therapist
Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Integrative therapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Integrative therapy • Relationships
80 / session80
Barcelona
In-person and Online
Paulina Gąska
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Paulina Gąska

Paulina Gąska

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Couples therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Couples therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence
90 / session90
Oberstaufen
Online only
Amine Güzel
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Amine Güzel

Amine Güzel

Clinical Psychologist (MSc), Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Relationships • Trauma
60 / session60
Istanbul
Online only
Dariia Milinchuk
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dariia Milinchuk

Dariia Milinchuk

Clinical Psychologist (Msc.), couple therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
75 / session75
Amsterdam
Online only
Naomi FUHRMANN
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Naomi FUHRMANN

Naomi FUHRMANN

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.)
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
60 / session60
Cologne
Online only
Carolina Pomilio
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Carolina Pomilio

Carolina Pomilio

Narrative Therapist in Training | Mindfulness Counsellor | Coach
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Grief & Loss • PTSD • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Grief & Loss • PTSD • Relationships • Trauma
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
Davina Blank
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Davina Blank

Davina Blank

Gestalt Therapist, Stress Management Trainer, Business Psychologist (M.A.), Sports Psychologist (M.A.)
Anxiety • Career • Coaching • Couples therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Career • Coaching • Couples therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress
90 / session90
Cologne
In-person and Online
Monica Cabildo
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Monica Cabildo

Monica Cabildo

Coach
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
Malak Niakan
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Malak Niakan

Malak Niakan

Integrative Counsellor
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence • Supervision for therapists • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence • Supervision for therapists • Trauma Informed Care
80 / session80
London
Online only
Aby Yousefi
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Aby Yousefi

Aby Yousefi

Psychodynamic Counsellor
Depression • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Relationships • Social anxiety • Therapy for Expats • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Depression • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Relationships • Social anxiety • Therapy for Expats • Trauma Informed Care
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online
Jan Fenten
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Jan Fenten

Jan Fenten

Psychologist & Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships • Schema therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships • Schema therapy
65 / session65
Leiden
In-person and Online
Natalia
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Natalia

Natalia

Counsellor & Coach
Anxiety • Career • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Career • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
60 / session60
Milan
Online only
Erin Wilmanns
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Erin Wilmanns

Erin Wilmanns

Clinical Counselor & Mental Health Coach
Anxiety • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression • Holistic approach • LGBTQI • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression • Holistic approach • LGBTQI • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Berlin
In-person and Online
Simona Ortolani
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Simona Ortolani

Simona Ortolani

Licensed Counsellor
Counselling • Person-centered approach • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Solution-focused therapy • Spirituality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Counselling • Person-centered approach • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Solution-focused therapy • Spirituality
60 / session60
Pesaro
Online and Text
Pablo Corbalan
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Pablo Corbalan

Pablo Corbalan

Individual & Couple Therapist
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists specialising in Relationships

What are relationship issues?

Relationship issues encompass a broad range of challenges that couples or individuals may face in their interpersonal relationships. These issues can arise in various forms, including communication difficulties, conflicts, trust issues, intimacy concerns, and differences in values or goals. Relationship issues can significantly impact emotional well-being, satisfaction, and overall quality of life. Recognising and addressing these issues early on is essential for fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships.

 

Effective treatment for relationship issues

Addressing relationship issues requires a collaborative and compassionate approach that focuses on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and strengthening connection. Effective treatments may include exploring relationship dynamics, improving communication skills, resolving conflicts, and rebuilding trust. Therapy offers a safe and non-judgmental space to explore and understand the underlying dynamics contributing to relationship issues. Therapists can teach practical communication skills, guide individuals in managing conflicts productively, and help rebuild trust through open communication and consistent actions.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you in managing your relationship.

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