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Find a therapist who can address patterns of relating formed in early caregiver interactions through interventions such as attachment-based psychotherapy or emotionally focused therapy, fostering secure attachments and emotional regulation to support healthy relationships and self-concept.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Ieva Baršauskaitė
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Ieva Baršauskaitė

Ieva Baršauskaitė

Licensed Psychologist
Anger • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Body therapy • Chronic Pain • Transgenerational • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anger • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Body therapy • Chronic Pain • Transgenerational • Trauma
85 / session85
Amsterdam
In-person only
Vera Pratikaki
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Vera Pratikaki

Vera Pratikaki

Accredited Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
90 / session90
Kifisia
Online and Text
Sigrid Hafner
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sigrid Hafner

Sigrid Hafner

Mindfulness-Based Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
80 / session80
Verona
In-person and Online
Amanda Hoffmann
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Amanda Hoffmann

Amanda Hoffmann

Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
120 / session120
Hamburg
In-person and Online
Sinem Gurcay
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sinem Gurcay

Sinem Gurcay

Psychological counseling and Coaching
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
70 / session70
Munich
In-person, Online and Text
Graeme Galton
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Graeme Galton

Graeme Galton

Registered Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
London
Online only
Stefania
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Stefania

Stefania

Counseling and Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
90 / session90
Amsterdam
Online only
Jacques B RIFF
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Jacques B RIFF

Jacques B RIFF

Gestalt therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gestalt therapy • Narcissism • Parenthood • Separation anxiety disorder
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gestalt therapy • Narcissism • Parenthood • Separation anxiety disorder
79 / session79
Labattoir
Online and Text
Czombos Zita
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Czombos Zita

Czombos Zita

Psychologist
Attachment • Career • Coaching • Counselling • Meditation • Online therapy • Personal development
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Attachment • Career • Coaching • Counselling • Meditation • Online therapy • Personal development
55 / session55
Budapest
In-person, Online and Text
Danielle Crawshaw
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Danielle Crawshaw

Danielle Crawshaw

Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Ratzeburg
Online only
Līna Sirsniņa
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Līna Sirsniņa

Līna Sirsniņa

Counselling Psychologist
Anger • Attachment • Mindfulness • Narcissistic abuse • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anger • Attachment • Mindfulness • Narcissistic abuse • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
35 / session35
Riga
In-person and Online
Milena Fehilly
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Milena Fehilly

Milena Fehilly

Psychologist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
40 / session40
Podgorica
In-person, Online and Text
Katharina Buchholz
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Katharina Buchholz

Katharina Buchholz

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.)
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • PTSD
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • PTSD
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
Margherita Chiusano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Margherita Chiusano

Margherita Chiusano

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc) and Clinical Counselor
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
40 / session40
Berlin
Online only
Ivana Oracova
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Ivana Oracova

Ivana Oracova

Accreditated Psychologist, MSc
Anger • Attachment • Body therapy • Career • Children • Couples therapy • Online therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anger • Attachment • Body therapy • Career • Children • Couples therapy • Online therapy
40 / session40
Bratislava
Online only
Susanne Stauch
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Susanne Stauch

Susanne Stauch

Licensed Mental Health Practitioner: Psychotherapy, Systemic Coaching, Somatic Bodywork, EAP
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Anna Schmutte
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Schmutte

Anna Schmutte

Systemische Einzel-, Paar- und Familientherapeutin, Körpertherapeutin, Coach, Kinderfrage-Coach, Qualifizierte Praktikerin der Grinberg Methode, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Dariia Milinchuk
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dariia Milinchuk

Dariia Milinchuk

Clinical Psychologist (Msc.), couple therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
75 / session75
Amsterdam
Online only
ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
45 / session45
Athens
Online only
Anne Pascale Stein
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Anne Pascale Stein

Anne Pascale Stein

Body Psychotherapist, Somatic Coach, AEDP, Grinberg Method, EMDR, TRE, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person and Online
Roberta Fenili
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Roberta Fenili

Roberta Fenili

Online EMDR Psychotherapist / Clinical Psychologist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • EMDR • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • EMDR • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
70 / session70
Madrid
Online only
Alessia Carrano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Alessia Carrano

Alessia Carrano

Relationship and Sex Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
70 / session70
Berlin
Online only
Irene Papadakis
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Irene Papadakis

Irene Papadakis

Counseling Psychologist and Therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
70 / session70
Athens
Online and Text
Kirsty Matthews
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Kirsty Matthews

Kirsty Matthews

Licenced Global Psychologist/Counselor
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine • Trauma
60 / session60
London
Online only
Simona Di Folco
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Simona Di Folco

Simona Di Folco

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Depression • Parenthood • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Depression • Parenthood • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
£60 / session60
Edinburgh
Online only
Adam Luczak
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Adam Luczak

Adam Luczak

Psychological Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists specialising in Attachment

What is attachment?

Attachment refers to the emotional bond that forms between infants and their caregivers, typically during the first years of life. It plays a crucial role in shaping a child's social and emotional development, as well as their future relationships and mental health. Secure attachment is characterised by a child's ability to seek comfort and reassurance from their caregiver and explore the world confidently, knowing that their needs will be met. In contrast, insecure attachment can lead to difficulties in regulating emotions, forming healthy relationships, and coping with stress later in life. Understanding attachment patterns and dynamics is essential for providing nurturing and supportive environments that foster healthy attachment bonds.

 

Effective management for attachment issues

Effective therapy for attachment issues focuses on building secure attachment relationships and addressing underlying emotional needs. Therapists use various approaches, such as attachment-based therapy, play therapy, and family therapy, to promote emotional regulation, enhance communication skills, and repair attachment ruptures. Creating a safe and trusting therapeutic environment is essential for individuals to explore their attachment experiences, express their emotions, and develop healthy coping strategies. Therapists work collaboratively with clients to identify and challenge maladaptive patterns of relating, empowering them to form more secure and fulfilling relationships.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you.

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