It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Insomnia

Insomnia is a sleep disorder where you have trouble falling or staying asleep, and it's one of the torments most likely reserved for only humankind. Somnus was the Roman God of sleep, and “in-“ is the Latin prefix for negation. Different philosophers and scientists have approached insomnia throughout history and it has been mainly discussed as a byproduct of other issues, i.e. a co-existing symptom of general dissatisfaction with life, accumulation of sexual tension (Freudian anxiety neurosis), obsessiveness (inability of letting go, fear of losing control), death anxiety or death concerns (interestingly, Somnus was a brother of Death, named Mors), attachment difficulties and relational losses. People suffering from insomnia may also experience symptoms of fatigue, low energy, difficulty concentrating, irritability, decreased performance in work or at school, and a depressed mood. Since insomnia can have a very direct and major effect on our daily lives, it has become a common practice to treat it with medication. However, regardless of whether you take prescribed chemical pills or natural baldrian drops, perhaps even having a glass or two of wine before bed, this initial alleviation can close the door to uncovering its message. Think of it as a chain of alarms that your 'body-mind' sets off when your system is in distress. Just snoozing an alarm for 5 minutes doesn’t mean the alarm won't ring again. And even if you managed to somehow turn it off for now, it might start ringing in another form or with another tune at another later time. This is when therapy comes into play. Regardless of the modality, therapy tries to follow the 'chain of alarms’. Therapy works with what has been setting the alarms off in the first place. So, if you are struggling with insomnia and wish to explore its roots then consider starting a therapy process. You might even be able to snooze the insomnia alarm for good.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Basilia Frankel

Basilia Frankel

CBT Therapist, Psychological Counsellor and Coach
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Counselling • Depression • Insomnia • Online therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Counselling • Depression • Insomnia • Online therapy
30 / session30
Podgorica
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Christian Mahlow

Christian Mahlow

Clinical Psychologist
Adjustment disorders • Burnout • Family therapy • Insomnia • Men's Work • Personal development • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Adjustment disorders • Burnout • Family therapy • Insomnia • Men's Work • Personal development • Transitions
80 / session80
Berlin
Online and Text
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Rita

Rita

Integrative Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Insomnia • Integrative therapy • Online therapy • PTSD
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Insomnia • Integrative therapy • Online therapy • PTSD
65 / session65
Madrid
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Taylan Zimmermann

Taylan Zimmermann

Klinischer Psychologe & Psychotherapeut
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
110 / session110
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Johna Hansen

Johna Hansen

Counsellor
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EMDR • Insomnia • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EMDR • Insomnia • Relationships • Trauma
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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