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Find a therapist that can help with Borderline personality disorder

Borderline personality disorder is a mental illness marked by an ongoing pattern of varying moods, self-image, and behavior. These symptoms often result in impulsive actions and problems in relationships. People with borderline personality disorder may experience intense episodes of anger, depression, and anxiety that can last from a few hours to days. People with borderline personality disorder may experience mood swings and display uncertainty about how they see themselves and their role in the world. As a result, their interests and values can change quickly. People with borderline personality disorder also tend to view things in extremes, such as all good or all bad. Their opinions of other people can also change quickly. An individual who is seen as a friend one day may be considered an enemy or traitor the next. These shifting feelings can lead to intense and unstable relationships.

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Anna Solovieva
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Anna Solovieva

Anna Solovieva

Gestalt Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
60 / session60
Belgrade
Online only
D Wiltshire Soares
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

D Wiltshire Soares

D Wiltshire Soares

Heilpraktiker für Psychotherapie
Adjustment disorders • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Gender identity • Mindfulness • Relationships • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Adjustment disorders • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Gender identity • Mindfulness • Relationships • Sexuality
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
João Carvalho
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

João Carvalho

João Carvalho

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
50 / session50
Lisbon
Online and Text
Matija Pajer
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Matija Pajer

Matija Pajer

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
60 / session60
Ljubljana
In-person and Online
Dr. Ela Ari
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Dr. Ela Ari

Dr. Ela Ari

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Psychotherapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
85 / session85
Istanbul
In-person and Online
Joel Colasso
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Joel Colasso

Joel Colasso

Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
$50 / session50
Buenos Aires
Online only
Stephanie Romero Ponticelli
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Stephanie Romero Ponticelli

Stephanie Romero Ponticelli

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Therapy for Expats
60 / session60
Quito
Online and Text
Mortatha Al Khafage
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Mortatha Al Khafage

Mortatha Al Khafage

Accredited Clinical Psycholgist
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
69 / session69
Hamburg
Online and Text
Vanessa Murri
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Vanessa Murri

Vanessa Murri

Accreditated Clinical Psychologist (MSc.)
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
Hugo Iglesias Moraes
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Hugo Iglesias Moraes

Hugo Iglesias Moraes

Licensed Psychologist (Jungian Approach) & Certified Clinical Neuropsychologist — Couples and Individual Therapy
Art therapy • Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Jungian analysis • Psychological First Aid • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Art therapy • Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Jungian analysis • Psychological First Aid • Solution-focused therapy
£70 / session70
London
Online only
Roderick Cameron
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Roderick Cameron

Roderick Cameron

Psychoanalyst and Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
70 / session70
Nicosia
Online only
Christian Möbius
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Christian Möbius

Christian Möbius

Dipl. Paed. (Grad. pedagogue), Psychotherapy (HPG), Group analyst, Cert. in Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Humanistic Psychology (TCI) and Neuolinguistic Programming (NLP)
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Depression • Personality disorders • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Depression • Personality disorders • Relationships • Trauma
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
Sarah Ehssan
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sarah Ehssan

Sarah Ehssan

Registered (MBACP) Psychodynamic Psychotherapist
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
£50 / session50
London
Online only
Malak Niakan
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Malak Niakan

Malak Niakan

Integrative Counsellor
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence • Supervision for therapists • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Self-confidence • Supervision for therapists • Trauma Informed Care
80 / session80
London
Online only
Oya Celik
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Oya Celik

Oya Celik

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Trauma
60 / session60
Amstelveen
Online only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists specialising in Borderline personality disorder

Therapy for Borderline personality disorder

Many people worldwide are affected by Borderline personality disorder, so by no means should you feel alone or that the diagnosis is unmanageable: many have sought treatment successfully through finding a qualified and compassionate psychotherapist. Although it requires some daily effort to manage Borderline personality disorder, seeking professional help is a key step in understanding what you need to gain more stability in everyday life and how to integrate healthy coping mechanisms into your daily routine. To learn how to go about selecting the perfect therapist, read our guide here.

How to choose a therapist specialising in Borderline personality disorder

It’s not unusual to feel slightly overwhelmed when choosing a type of therapy. These feelings are completely normal and can be part of the initial stages of seeking therapy. It's important to remember that finding the right fit for you is crucial, and it may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you need additional help in finding a qualified practitioner, It’s Complicated offers a free matching service, where our in-house therapists will try to find the best match for you based on your individual needs and preferences.

It’s Complicated: Counselling worldwide

Search for practitioners who specialise in Borderline personality disorder and many other approaches in the search tool here in our directory of licensed professionals. For many of us, there's never a more important time than now to nurture our mental health. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, our platform features over 1,500 mental health professionals from 80+ countries. Counselling is also available in almost 100 languages, both online and in-person, making the search for an accredited psychologist who is knowledgeable about Borderline personality disorder much less complicated.

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