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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Isa Carreira
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Isa Carreira

Isa Carreira

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Integrative therapy • Personal development • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Integrative therapy • Personal development • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
50 / session50
Lisbon
In-person and Online
Toni Kircheis
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Toni Kircheis

Toni Kircheis

systemischer Therapeut
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Parenthood • Relationships • Self-confidence • Systemic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Parenthood • Relationships • Self-confidence • Systemic therapy
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Maria Markoulaki
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Maria Markoulaki

Maria Markoulaki

Psychotherapist
Agoraphobia • Burnout • Depression • Group therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Social anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Agoraphobia • Burnout • Depression • Group therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Social anxiety
50 / session50
Athens
Online only
Zehra Bekişoğlu
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Zehra Bekişoğlu

Zehra Bekişoğlu

M.Sc. Psychologist
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Dortmund
Online and Text
Charlotte (Qiaochu) Hu
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Charlotte (Qiaochu) Hu

Charlotte (Qiaochu) Hu

Clinical Psychologist, MSc
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Personal development • Relationships • Social anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Personal development • Relationships • Social anxiety
65 / session65
Amsterdam
Online only
Monica Cabildo
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Monica Cabildo

Monica Cabildo

Coach
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
 Dr. med. Kai Gutzeit
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Dr. med. Kai Gutzeit

Dr. med. Kai Gutzeit

Medical doctor & therapist for Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) & Supervisor
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Psychedelic integration therapy • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Psychedelic integration therapy • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Zeljka Tomas
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Zeljka Tomas

Zeljka Tomas

Accredited Body Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Narcissism • Relationships • Sexuality • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Narcissism • Relationships • Sexuality • Trauma
80 / session80
Amsterdam
Online only
Fanny Isnard Persson
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Fanny Isnard Persson

Fanny Isnard Persson

Accredited therapist
Anxiety • Crisis Response • Gestalt therapy • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Crisis Response • Gestalt therapy • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Osby
In-person and Online
Miriam Krafft
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Miriam Krafft

Miriam Krafft

Psychologist
Anxiety • Body therapy • Crisis Response • Relationships • Sexuality • Spirituality • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Body therapy • Crisis Response • Relationships • Sexuality • Spirituality • Trauma
90 / session90
Hamburg
Online only
Maximiliano Jozami
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Maximiliano Jozami

Maximiliano Jozami

Lic. en Psicología
Anxiety • Depression • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Panic attacks • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Panic attacks • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
75 / session75
Berlin
Online only
Graeme Galton
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Graeme Galton

Graeme Galton

Registered Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
London
Online only
Lina Horst
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Lina Horst

Lina Horst

Coach
Anxiety • Career • Eating disorders • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Spiritual crisis
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Career • Eating disorders • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Spiritual crisis
30 / session30
Schwerin
Online and Text
Judith Fortmann
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Judith Fortmann

Judith Fortmann

Psychologin
Counselling • Family therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic Approach
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Counselling • Family therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic Approach
80 / session80
Freiburg im Breisgau
Online only
Alexander Tancredi
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Alexander Tancredi

Alexander Tancredi

Clinical psychologist - Psychotherapist
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Co-Dependency • Couples therapy • Depression • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Co-Dependency • Couples therapy • Depression • Relationships • Stress
85 / session85
Stockholm
Online only
Caroline Rosa
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Caroline Rosa

Caroline Rosa

Accredited Psychotherapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anger • Anxiety • Female empowerment • Relationships • Sexual abuse • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anger • Anxiety • Female empowerment • Relationships • Sexual abuse • Therapy for Expats
60 / session60
Rotterdam
Online only
Ingrid Glanowski
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Ingrid Glanowski

Ingrid Glanowski

Accredited Psychologist
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Palermo
Online only
Diana Calmes
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Diana Calmes

Diana Calmes

Accredited Clinical Psychologist and Psychotherapist
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
90 / session90
Philadelphia
Online only
Irene Papadakis
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Irene Papadakis

Irene Papadakis

Counseling Psychologist and Therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
70 / session70
Athens
Online and Text
Brigitte Escobar Andersen
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Brigitte Escobar Andersen

Brigitte Escobar Andersen

Accredited Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Co-Dependency • Holistic approach • Narcissism • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Co-Dependency • Holistic approach • Narcissism • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
kr750 / session750
Copenhagen
Online only
Anna Bellack
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Bellack

Anna Bellack

Clinical Psychologist (M.A. psych.), Psychological counselor, ADHD/ADD friendly, integrative approach,online
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only
Sophie S.
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sophie S.

Sophie S.

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.)
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
60 / session60
Berlin
Online only
Antonia Kennel
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Antonia Kennel

Antonia Kennel

Medical doctor, Hypnotherapist, NLP-Trainer, Professional Emergency Counsellor
Addictions • Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Addictions • Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Lauren Steingold
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Lauren Steingold

Lauren Steingold

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • CFT: Compassion-Focused Therapy • EMDR • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • CFT: Compassion-Focused Therapy • EMDR • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Trauma
100 / session100
Ashford
Online only
Boris Herzberg
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Boris Herzberg

Boris Herzberg

Couples & Relationships Counselor, Psychoanalytic Therapist
Couples therapy • Divorce • Family therapy • Relationships • Separation anxiety disorder • Sexuality • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Couples therapy • Divorce • Family therapy • Relationships • Separation anxiety disorder • Sexuality • Stress
125 / session125
Tel Aviv-Yafo
Online only
Adam Luczak
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Adam Luczak

Adam Luczak

Psychological Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists who can help with Relationships

What are relationship issues?

Relationship issues encompass a broad range of challenges that couples or individuals may face in their interpersonal relationships. These issues can arise in various forms, including communication difficulties, conflicts, trust issues, intimacy concerns, and differences in values or goals. Relationship issues can significantly impact emotional well-being, satisfaction, and overall quality of life. Recognising and addressing these issues early on is essential for fostering healthy and fulfilling relationships.

 

Effective treatment for relationship issues

Addressing relationship issues requires a collaborative and compassionate approach that focuses on improving communication, resolving conflicts, and strengthening connection. Effective treatments may include exploring relationship dynamics, improving communication skills, resolving conflicts, and rebuilding trust. Therapy offers a safe and non-judgmental space to explore and understand the underlying dynamics contributing to relationship issues. Therapists can teach practical communication skills, guide individuals in managing conflicts productively, and help rebuild trust through open communication and consistent actions.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you in managing your relationship.

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