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Find a therapist that can help with Attachment

Find a therapist who can address patterns of relating formed in early caregiver interactions through interventions such as attachment-based psychotherapy or emotionally focused therapy, fostering secure attachments and emotional regulation to support healthy relationships and self-concept.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Ingrid Glanowski
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Ingrid Glanowski

Ingrid Glanowski

Accredited Psychologist
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Palermo
Online only
Ieva Baršauskaitė
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Ieva Baršauskaitė

Ieva Baršauskaitė

Licensed Psychologist
Anger • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Body therapy • Chronic Pain • Transgenerational • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anger • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Body therapy • Chronic Pain • Transgenerational • Trauma
85 / session85
Amsterdam
In-person and Online
Stefania
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Stefania

Stefania

Counseling and Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
90 / session90
Amsterdam
Online only
Danielle Crawshaw
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Danielle Crawshaw

Danielle Crawshaw

Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Ratzeburg
Online only
Mauro Capelli
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Mauro Capelli

Mauro Capelli

Psychological Psychotherapist
Alcoholism • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Alcoholism • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats
65 / session65
Innsbruck
Online and Text
Anna Schmutte
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Schmutte

Anna Schmutte

Systemische Einzel-, Paar- und Familientherapeutin, Körpertherapeutin, Coach, Kinderfrage-Coach, Qualifizierte Praktikerin der Grinberg Methode, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Vera Pratikaki
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Vera Pratikaki

Vera Pratikaki

Accredited Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
90 / session90
Kifisia
Online and Text
Anne Pascale Stein
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Anne Pascale Stein

Anne Pascale Stein

Body Psychotherapist, Somatic Coach, AEDP, Grinberg Method, EMDR, TRE, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person and Online
Ryan O'Millian
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Ryan O'Millian

Ryan O'Millian

Relational Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • LGBTQI • Relationships • Somatization disorder
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • LGBTQI • Relationships • Somatization disorder
$125 / session125
Boulder
In-person and Online
Dr. Fabiano Zamel, M.D., Psychiatrist
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Dr. Fabiano Zamel, M.D., Psychiatrist

Dr. Fabiano Zamel, M.D., Psychiatrist

Psychodynamic Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Dream analysis • Grief & Loss • Jungian analysis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Dream analysis • Grief & Loss • Jungian analysis • Trauma
130 / session130
Berlin
In-person and Online
Lavinia Bucur
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Lavinia Bucur

Lavinia Bucur

Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Group therapy • IFS: Internal Family Systems • Transgenerational • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Group therapy • IFS: Internal Family Systems • Transgenerational • Trauma
80 / session80
Amsterdam
In-person and Online
Susanne Stauch
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Susanne Stauch

Susanne Stauch

Licensed Mental Health Practitioner: Psychotherapy, Systemic Coaching, Somatic Bodywork, EAP
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Nikoleta Gehrmann
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Nikoleta Gehrmann

Nikoleta Gehrmann

Psychologist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Psychodynamic therapy • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Psychodynamic therapy • Stress • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
79 / session79
Cologne
In-person, Online and Text
Dr. Yang Fang
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Dr. Yang Fang

Dr. Yang Fang

Counsellor
Academic or educational problems • Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
85 / session85
Berlin
Online and Text
Valeria Nogales
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Valeria Nogales

Valeria Nogales

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Existential analysis • Spirituality • Stress • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Existential analysis • Spirituality • Stress • Trauma
70 / session70
Madrid
In-person and Online
Margherita Chiusano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Margherita Chiusano

Margherita Chiusano

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc) and Clinical Counselor
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
40 / session40
Berlin
Online only
Anna Bellack
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Bellack

Anna Bellack

Clinical Psychologist (M.A. psych.), Psychological counselor, ADHD/ADD friendly, integrative approach,online
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only
Sinem Gurcay
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sinem Gurcay

Sinem Gurcay

Psychological counseling and Coaching
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
70 / session70
Munich
In-person, Online and Text
Sanne Homewood
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Sanne Homewood

Sanne Homewood

Psychologist & Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence
70 / session70
Amsterdam
Online only
Melania Focone
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Melania Focone

Melania Focone

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Female empowerment • Gestalt therapy • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Female empowerment • Gestalt therapy • Stress
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
Karina
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Karina

Karina

MSc Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
65 / session65
Kyiv
Online only
Nefeli Louizou
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Nefeli Louizou

Nefeli Louizou

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
60 / session60
Berlin
Online only
Yafa Jaffal
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Yafa Jaffal

Yafa Jaffal

psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Holistic approach • Panic attacks
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Holistic approach • Panic attacks
130 / session130
Amman
Online only
Dr. Frederik Unseld (Attachment Repair)
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dr. Frederik Unseld (Attachment Repair)

Dr. Frederik Unseld (Attachment Repair)

Hypno-Systemic Coach
Attachment • Depression • Divorce • Grief & Loss • Hypnotherapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Depression • Divorce • Grief & Loss • Hypnotherapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
75 / session75
Berlin
Online only
Zoi Theofilakou
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Zoi Theofilakou

Zoi Theofilakou

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
Ellie Harvey-Kummer
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Ellie Harvey-Kummer

Ellie Harvey-Kummer

Integrative Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Coaching • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Coaching • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy
65 / session65
London
In-person and Online

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists who can help with Attachment

What is attachment?

Attachment refers to the emotional bond that forms between infants and their caregivers, typically during the first years of life. It plays a crucial role in shaping a child's social and emotional development, as well as their future relationships and mental health. Secure attachment is characterised by a child's ability to seek comfort and reassurance from their caregiver and explore the world confidently, knowing that their needs will be met. In contrast, insecure attachment can lead to difficulties in regulating emotions, forming healthy relationships, and coping with stress later in life. Understanding attachment patterns and dynamics is essential for providing nurturing and supportive environments that foster healthy attachment bonds.

 

Effective management for attachment issues

Effective therapy for attachment issues focuses on building secure attachment relationships and addressing underlying emotional needs. Therapists use various approaches, such as attachment-based therapy, play therapy, and family therapy, to promote emotional regulation, enhance communication skills, and repair attachment ruptures. Creating a safe and trusting therapeutic environment is essential for individuals to explore their attachment experiences, express their emotions, and develop healthy coping strategies. Therapists work collaboratively with clients to identify and challenge maladaptive patterns of relating, empowering them to form more secure and fulfilling relationships.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you.

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